P489 Teletext 489 May20 23:10:50 ————————————————————————————— STILL A VIRGIN Dear Nick I'm 24 and still a virgin. I've had a couple of girlfriends but it's never gone beyond the kissing stage. I think there must be something wrong with mj bjcausj all my friends lost their virginity years ago. I'm dreading the time when I meet the right girl. I won't have a clue what to do and she'll think that I'm a freak. John ——————————————————————————————————1/7—— Is your pet playing up? 485 WHAT'S ON IN THE GREEN WORLf? 8464 Your money Fun & Game What's On CinemasP489 Teletext 489 May20 23:11:17 ————————————————————————————— STILL A VIRGIN 0 Nick replies Being a virgin at 24 does not make you a freak. Some girls would find it vjr8 touching and reassuring. It's a myth that women always want mega-experienced "min of the world". They want to feel secure and love4. Y U can do that. The key is meeting the right girl and not worrying about sex. Making love is something that you can discover together, gradually and lovingly. cont... ——————————————————————————————————2/7—— What's in the stars for you? ITV 356 MEDICAL PROBS? HELP ON MONmFRI p4<= Your money Fun & Game What's On CinemasP489 Teletext 489 May20 23:19:26 ————————————————————————————— [ STILL A VIRGIN 0 Nick replies Being a virgin at 24 can even work in your favour. A lot of women would respect the fact that you haven't had lots of casual sexual encounters. It makes you safe. Being your first could make a girl feel very special and honoured. Virgin is not a dirty word. It can be very positive. Books like First Love, First Sex by Kaye Wellings (Thorsons, £6.99) will tell you all you need to know. ——————————————————————————————————3/7—— Get in the garden this weekend 488 CONFUSED ABOUT YOUR CAREER? p654 Your money Fun & Game What's On CinemasP489 Teletext 489 May20 23:19:41 ————————————————————————pp——— Q I FANCY HIS MUM Dear Nick I'vj been best friends with my mate, Karl, for over 10 years. We'vj always been very close and I wouldn't do anything to hurt him. But recently, I'vj started to find myself attracted to his mother. Shr's only in her 40s and is very sexy. She's been divorced for a few years. I think she's waiting for mj to make a move. Ian ——————————————————————————————————4/7—— Jenny Agutter's favourite w/knd 481 HOT STYLES FOR COOL SHADES! p441 Your money Fun & Game What's On CinemasP489 Teletext 489 May20 23:19:01 ————————————————————————pp——— Q I FANCY HIS MUM Nick replies Fancying a friend's mum is a very natural feeling to have, particularly as you get into your 20s when the age gap appears much smaller. Women in thieu 40s can bj immjnsel8 attractive. It's a dilemma because part of you is horrified that you're fancying your mate's mum while the rest of you finds it very natural. cont./. ——————————————————————————————————5/7—— Is romance in your stars? Mon-Fri 488 WBYS TO COPE WITH A NEW JOB 8653 Your money Fun & Game What's On CinemasP489 Teletext 489 May20 23:1p:2k ————————————————————————————— I FANCY HIS MUM 0 Nick replies Fancying a friend's mum is natural but complicated. Your long friendship would bj badly affected by any romance between you. Even though it feels natural to you it would feel very threatening to your mate. You imagine she's waiting for you to make a move, but I don't think you should. Even if it worked it would destroy a long friendship and signal a bad start to any relationship. ——————————————————————————————————6/7—— Want to win a trip to the theatre? 451 TIME FOR A BREAK? lOLIf—YS ITV 8200 Your money Fun & Game What's On CinemasP489 Teletext 489 May20 23:10:32 ———————————————p—————————p——— Write to Nick Fisher: Men'1 Talk TELETEXT LTD PO BOX 297 or fax LONDON SW6 1XT 071 386 7808 NICK FISHER, author of Inside Men's Minds and other advice books for min, also writes for Just 17 and More magazines and will answer any queries you have about love and relationships. Nick is sorry he cannot enter into an= personal correspondence. —————————————————————————p————————7/7p— MonmFri: Ann Hooper and dr MacGregoz DATING? TRY ONE-TO-ONE p390 ITV Your money Fun & Game What's On Cinemas