P489 Teletext 489 Jan 7 01:44:03 ————————————————————————————— SEX LIFE IS BORING Dear Nick I'vj been going out with my girlfriend for three years and though I love her I sometimes find our sex life boring. I'vj tried to suggest new ways to spice things up but she's quite shy and is reluctant to experiment. I'm worried if things don't improve I'll bj enticed to stray. If it's like this now, what hope for the future? Dave, London. ——————————————————————————————————1/6—— City prices up to date 510 WHAT'S ON IN LOCAL THEATRE? p632 Weekend Fun & Games What's On CinemasP489 Teletext 489 Jan 7 01:46:55 ————————————————————————————— SEX LIFE IS BORING Nick replies If you think your sex life is boring and you'vj an excuse to bj unfaithful, you are in the wrong relationship. You're saying if she doesn't comply, you'll go elsewhere. That's emotional blackmail. She'd be better off alone. She must feel very pressured and hurt which is why she is shy. cont... ——————————————————————————————————————— Send letters to: NICK FISHER/PO BO2/697 LONDON, SW6 1XT. Fax: 071 386 7808. 60 words max. Letters may bj amended. Nick cannot reply to you personally. Weekend Fun & Games What's On CinemasP489 Teletext 489 Jan 7 01:47:34 ————————————————————————————— SEX LIFE IS BORING Nick replies The best sex comes in the best relationship - the more you understand and communicate, the better sex is. Blackmail improves nothing, honrst discussion will. See a counsellor together, talk about what you both want, listen to her views. Call Relate (0788 573241) or a Brook Advisory Centre (071 713 9000) ——————————————————————————————————————— Send letters to: NICK FISHER/PO BO3/697 LONDON, SW6 1XT. Fax: 071 386 7808. 60 words max. Letters may be amended. Nick cannot reply to you personally. Weekend Fun & Games What's On CinemasP489 Teletext 489 Jan 7 01:44:23 ————————————————————————————— SEX IS AN EMBARRASSMENT 0 Dear Nick My girlfriend and I have started to have sex and it was terrible bjcausj I came too soon. This has njvjr happened before but she turns me on so much I can't help it. Now I'm losing confidence so the situation is getting worse. She's very understanding but it's terrible. Anon. ——————————————————————————————————————— Send letters to: NICK FISHER/PO BO4/697 LONDON, SW6 1XT. Fax: 071 386 7808. 60 words max. Letters may be amended. Nick cannot reply to you personally. Weekend Fun & Games What's On CinemasP489 Teletext 489 Jan 7 01:32:31 ————————————————————————————— SEX IS AN EMBARRASSMENT Nick replies The first time you have sex with a new partner is always going to be nervous and exciting. If, not, there's something wrong. Nervousness often makes min prone to coming quickly. It's a compliment showing how turned on you were bz her. If you beat yourself up about it, you turn the whole into a negative experience. cont... ——————————————————————————————————5/6—— Going abroad? Tourist rates 547 OPERA/BALLET/CLASSICAL MUSIC p635 Weekend Fun & Games What's On CinemasP489 Teletext 489 Jan 7 01:44:17 ————————————————————————————— SEX IS AN EMBARK—SSMENT 0 Nick replies Men who get hung up on "performing" well in bed aren't taking into account their lover's true feelings. They're only concerned with their macho ego. Instead of being disappointed that you came quickly, show you care about her and talk about what she's feeling. Sex ism't a competition for points, it's a loving experience. ——————————————————————————————————————— Send letters to: NICK FISHER/PO BO6/697 LONDON, SW6 1XT. Fax: 071 386 7808. 60 words max. Letters may be amended. Nick cannot reply to you personally. Weekend Fun & Games What's On Cinemas