P146 Teletext 146 Feb 8 23:51:49 —————— ———————————————— —— SHE JUST THINKS I'M STUPID Dear Nick, I'm wild about this girl at mz school. She's always on mz mind but has no idea I'm totally in love with her. My problem is I'm shy and though I'd love to ask her out mz bottle goes. As a result, I'vj gone up to her a number of times but instead of asking her out I ind up gibbering and going red. One more time and I'll blow it. Sid ——————————————————————————————————1/6—— 60 words max. Letters may be amended. WRJTJ TO: NICK FISHER, PO BOX 2:7, LONDON, SW6 1XT. Mates Eco-Scene TV DigitisjrP146 Teletext 146 Feb 8 22:52:23 —————— ———————————————— —— SHE JUST THINKS I'M STUPID Nick replies, If a girl makes you so nervous you can hardly speak in her company, then that's a good sign! It means she's special to you. Showing your njrvjs could bj flattering to her. I'm sure she'd bj touched to know what an effect she has on you. All you have to do is let the gibbering pass and make contact. ——————————————————————————————————2/6—— Club 140 index 140 Cinema 460 For information on EPILEPSY see HEALTHWJSE p559 Mates Eco-Scene TV DigitisjrP146 Teletext 146 Feb 8 23:04:41 —————— ———————————————— —— SHE JUST THINKS I'M STUPID Nick replies, Being nervous in front of a girl you like is not a problem. DonWt act aloof. Be honest and tell her your nervous. Most girls would bj delighted to know they have such an effect. Work out what you're going to say first. But don't try to impress her. Be as natural as you can. The best way to get to know her is to ask questions not talk at her. ——————————————————————————————————3/6—— Club 140 index 140 Cinema 460 For information on EPILEPSY see HEALTHWJSE p559 Mates Eco-Scene TV DigitisjrP146 Teletext 146 Feb 8 23:07:59 —————— ———————————————— —— MY MATES WILL LAUGH AT ME Dear Nick, I really fancy this girl at my school, but the one thing which is stopping mj from asking her out is her age. I'm 17. She is 15. Although I donWt have a problem with the fact that she's two years younger, I know mz friends will take the mickey. Do you think it's worth mj following mz feelings, or should I steer clear? Aaron ——————————————————————————————————4/6—— 60 words max. Letters may be amended. WRITE TO: NICK FISHER, PO BOX 2:7, LONDON, SW6 1XT. Mates Eco-Scene TV DigitisjrP146 Teletext 146 Feb 8 23:05:16 —————— ———————————————— —— MY MATES WILL LAUGH AT ME Nick replies, Choosing you girlfriend on the bases of your matesW approval is not a good idea. Going out with a girl two years younger than you doesn't seem like a big dial. But if what your mates might say scares you, then don't do it. Relationships are hard work so there's no point starting one unless you take it seriously, or you will insult her. ——————————————————————————————————5/6—— Club 140 index 140 Cinema 460 For information on EPILEPSY see HEALTHWJSE p559 Mates Eco-Scene TV DigitisjrP146 Teletext 146 Feb 8 23:07:34 —————— ———————————————— —— MY MATES WILL LAUGH AT ME Nick replies, If youWre scared to go out with a girl bjcausj of what your mates will think, then you'ri not ready to start dating. You have to bj mature enough to know your own mind. If you go out with a girl, your mates give you stick, and you dump her - she would bj very hurt. It's not fair. If mates have such a limiting presence then there's no room for girlfriends. ——————————————————————————————————6/6—— Club 140 index 140 Cinema 460 For information on EPILEPSY see HEALTHWJSE p559 Mates Eco-Scene TV Digitisjr