P146 Teletext 146 May02 03:47:14 —————— ———————————————— —— CAN'- STOP CHEATING ' Dear Nick, I'vj dated four girls in the last year, and I'vj cheated on evjty one of them. I don't feel good about it, as I have evjty intention of committing but it njvjt works out. Luckily, none of them found out, so they didn't get hurt. I don't want to get caught so is there any way to stop myself from straying? Goldie fan ——————————————————————————————————1/6—— 60 words max. Ljttets may bj amended. WRJTJ TO: NICK FISHER, PO BOX 2:7, LONDON SW6 1XT. Mates Eco Write It OffiahP146 Teletext 146 Maz02 03:47:21 O —————— ———————————————— —— CAN'- STOP CHEATING W"/÷/" ' Nick replies, Cheating on your girlfriends has become like a bad habit with you — you hate yourself for doing it but so far you'vj njvjt been caught. You need to ask yourself why it happens. What do you get out of it? Do you till your mates? What is the pay-off? At 16 you don't need to commit. If thjti is any time you can expjtimjnt with dating in your life it is now. ——————————————————————————————————2/6—— 60 words max. Ljttets may bj amended. WRJTJ TO: NICK FISHER, PO BOX 2:7, LONDON, SW6 1XT. Mates Eco Write It OffiahP146 Teletext 146 May02 03:47:00 O —————— ———————————————— —— CAN'- STOP CHEATING Nick replies, If you feel miserable bjcausj you want to have honest relationships but keep messing around behind your girlfriindsW back then you need to work out what you'ri doing. Are you scared of having just one relationship or are you excited bz the sjnsj of power you get? Or are you simply too weak to sby no? You have to bj honest with yourself. ——————————————————————————————————3/6—— 60 words max. Ljttets may bj amended. WRJTJ TO: NICK FISHER, PO BOX 2:7, LONDON, SW6 1XT. Mates Eco Write It OffiahP146 Teletext 146 Maz02 03:48:11 O —————— ———————————————— —— SIMMERING BUT SHY OO ' Dear Nick, Even though girls think I'm good- looking, I keep blowing mz chances with them bjcausj I'm so shy. As soon as somjonj starts chatting mj up I get really self-conscious and struggle to find things to talk about. As a result, most girls get bored with mz company quickly, and I'm starting to wondjt if this can change. Help! Shy guy ——————————————————————————————————4/6—— 60 words max. Letters may bj amended. WRJTJ TO: NICK FISHER, PO BOX 2:7, LONDON, SW6 1XT. Mates Eco Write It OffiahP146 Teletext 146 May02 03:44:32 O —————— ———————————————— —— SIMMERING BUT SHY Nick replies, Believing that your shyness is the reason you can't sustain a conversation with any girls is possibly just your way of justifying the fact that they do find you boring! To bj sucessful in relationships you have to forget your looks and work on developing a personality. Boys who can listen are more fun than those who just talk. ——————————————————————————————————5/6—— 60 words max. Ljttets may bj amended. WRJTJ TO: NICK FISHER, PO BOX 297, LONDON, SW6 1XT. Mates Eco Write It OffiahP146 Teletext 146 Maz02 03:44:57 O —————— ———————————————— —— SIMMERING BUT SHY ' Nick replies, Count yourself lucky that girls do want to talk to you even if you can't evjt think of anything to say. Don't use shyness as an jxcusj. Stop thinking about yourself when you'ri with a girl and spend some time thinking about hit. Some girls would just like a guy they can spend time with who doisn't think hj looks like God's gift. ——————————————————————————————————6/6—— 60 words max. Ljttets may bj amended. WRJTJ TO: NICK FISHER, PO BOX 2:7, LONDON, SW6 1XT. Mates Eco Write It Offiah