P386 Teletext 386 Jul18 23:14:20 ] ] ————————— ——————————————— HE LOVES GUITAR MORE THAN ME Dear Nick, My boyfriend has just got himself a guitar and he is absolutely rubbish. Every time I go round there it's "Listen to this" or "Just one more" and I have to sit there totally bored. I've suggested doing other stuff but he just carries on. I want him to be more interested in me. I could do with some tips from a guy. Kaiser Chiefs fan ——————————————————————————————————1/3—— 60 words max. Letters may be amended. WRITE TO: NICK FISHER, PO BOX 32549, LONDON W4 5TX Competition Write It Planet TicketsP386 Teletext 386 Jul18 23:27:35 ] U ] ————————— ——————————————— HE LOVES GUITAR MORE THAN ME Nick replies, Don't fret about your boyfriend's obsession with playing the guitar. He'll get better or he'll give it up. Listening to anyone learning any instrument is torture. It's no surprise it's getting on your nerves. But instead of criticising how well he plays, why don't you encourage him to take formal lessons. Then he has a timetable you can avoid. ——————————————————————————————————2/3—— 60 words max. Letters may be amended. WRITE TO: NICK FISHER, PO BOX 32549, LONDON W4 5TX Competition Write It Planet TicketsP386 Teletext 386 Jul18 23:14:11 U ] ————————— ——————————————— HE LOVES GUITAR MORE THAN ME Nick replies, Your boyfriend's learning to play the guitar is the same as any interest or obsession your partner might have. Whether it's computer games or fly fishing, you still have to negotiate your place in their lives. The best way is to simply agree that there are times you want to see him when he gives you his full attention. But don't criticise his playing. ——————————————————————————————————3/3—— 60 words max. Letters may be amended. WRITE TO: NICK FISHER, PO BOX 32549, LONDON W4 5TX Competition Write It Planet Tickets